Women

No, it's not a rant about how women are the devil. Quite the opposite! It's about how I love the ladies! That sounds creepy. It's more about how I appreciate the women.

Played a gig last night and met this cool chick, good looking too! Also met some other cool girls there. I think in today's society of exploiting women, men and women alike can get caught up in that mind set. Men look at women as objects and women look at themselves and others as worthless. And to be honest, women are more affected by self-esteem issues than men are and they don't need extra shit loaded on to their shoulders. Eating disorders are more common in women, depression is more common, and the pressure to look a certain way is unreal. I really do feel for all those women out there who have to deal with that shit. Every day it's forced down our throats and we all choke on it eventually. Women are beautiful! They're great! To relate to the start of this, the girl I met is a normal girl who (even though I just met her yesterday) is a laugh. She's pretty, she's not an anorexic model and is comfortable with how she looks. I look up to women like that. That quality in itself is attractive. What the media finds attractive changes and so the trends, diets and 'fads of fashion' will also change. Women forget that they are beautiful.
Example; A guy can look at a normal woman and say she is attractive. A woman can look at the same woman and say she is attractive with no sexual meaning behind it. However, a man and a woman can not look at a normal guy and both say he is attractive.
The thing the media has gotten right is that women are far more attractive than men, however they exploit that fact for profit which is disgusting. I find it disappointing when I see young girls with make-up lathered on. I find it even more disappointing when older women do the same thing! The mentality that the more you have on the better you look goes back thousands of years. So it is true this is nothing new but isn't that a bad thing? It's just gotten worse.
The song by Ernie K. Doe 'Here Come The Girls' is the theme for this blog. Perhaps the Sugababes cover can edge it's way in. If every women took that songs confidence we would be on a way to a better world.
I read something on a fridge magnet that struck me. A great place for profound sayings but here we go. "There are no ugly women, just lazy ones." Take away the little bit of venom in that and let's start there. It's true in my mind, there are no ugly women. That doesn't mean I want to ride every living woman, that's taking this the wrong way. Every woman, EVERY WOMAN has the potential to look beautiful. Many don't even know they can or that they do look beautiful. I'm using the word 'beautiful' a lot so you get the point! I could never be gay because I just love the ladies too much! And we haven't even crossed the border of personalities.
There is NOTHING more attractive than a confident woman, to me anyway. I'm sure this can count more than me, though. A confident woman will make herself look good because she wants to, not because she's told to. And you better believe she will look good! A confident woman is a happy woman and if she is happy there will be something about her that will make her look radiant. And I'm not talking about over confidence or a showy in-your-face attitude, I'm talking about a woman who doesn't care what you think, she's going out on a Friday night! And when I mean every woman, I mean EVERY WOMAN! I'm not a shallow asshole. Big, thin, short, tall, women of all nations. Beautiful. The sting in the tail is that people are so focused on looks and quick flings that women get damaged. They don't believe what they are and they deny and bury it.

I'm a sucker for them. On an emotional and physical level. But I wouldn't have it any other way. (And I kinda hope I get to know that girl better!)

If any women read this then get the message! YOU. ARE. BEAUTIFUL. End of story. If any men read this then get the message! Appreciate the women!